Claimed Without Chasing: How to Stop Doing the Work for Him
VIRTUAL WORKSHOP FOR WOMEN THAT WANT TO FEEL LED
How can you feel led if you’re doing all the work for him ... what’s left for him to do? Can you see it... how you're quietly blocking the very connection you claim you want?
But I’m going to take a wild guess and say…
You’re the woman who gets things done.
At work, in your social circle, with your family—when something needs to get done, everyone looks to you. Not because you want them to, but because, let’s be honest, who else will step up?
So you became her. The dependable one. The problem-solver.
And sure, it’s earned you respect—your boss relies on you, your friends adore you, and your family leans on you for support.
But when it comes to love? This strength feels more like a burden…
Because instead of feeling cherished, you feel responsible.
Instead of being supported, you’re doing all the supporting.
Instead of leaning back, you’re the one doing the heavy lifting—again.
And deep down, you’re tired of being in charge and control of everything. Especially when it comes to the men in your life.
But somehow, you keep ending up in situations where YOU are doing all the work.
You plan the dates.
You bring up the “Where is this going?” conversation.
You initiate the tough conversations.
You send him my content and others like mine hoping he’ll finally see where he needs to grow.
You’re the one texting first, initiating connection, trying to make him feel comfortable enough to step up.
But he doesn’t. And you’re stuck wondering:
“Why does it feel like I have to carry this relationship? Shouldn’t he want to put in effort too?”
You’re Not Alone. But You’re Also Not Helping Your Situation
Here’s the part you may not want to hear (but need to):
Men don’t step up when you do all the work for them.
Why would they? You’re making it way too easy.
By chasing, initiating, and leading the relationship, you’re signaling two things:
You don’t trust him to lead.
You’re willing to overfunction just to keep him around.
And deep down, I know you hate this dynamic.
You hate how it feels to be the one pursuing when all you really want is to be pursued.
You hate that you have to remind him to text, call, plan a date or show up like he said he would.
And you really, REALLY hate when you tell yourself it’s fine—only to have him ghost you or ignore your needs.
“Was I too much?”
“Did I scare him off?”
“Why do I keep ending up here?”
Here’s Why It Happens
It’s not because you’re too much. And it’s not because there’s something wrong with you.
It’s because no one taught you how to inspire a man to lead.
Society has tricked women into thinking you have to chase, perform, put in no effort at all or “prove your worth” for a man to step up.
But here’s the truth:
A healthy masculine man doesn’t need you to chase him. He needs you to let him lead.
So what should you do?
GET OUT OF HIS WAY! This isn’t about playing games with him.
It’s about shifting your energy and doing something you’re not used to ever doing…
“giving up control.”
And giving up control you’ll find that You’re actually reclaiming your feminine power.
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to feel claimed, cherished, led and pursued.
In fact, it’s the healthiest thing you can do—for yourself AND for the relationship.
Because the man who’s ready to lead and step up?
He doesn’t want you chasing him.
He wants a woman who is invested, can receive him and trusts him to show up.
I know what youre thinking …
“This sounds great, but what if he doesn’t step up?”
Then he’s not your guy. Plain and simple.
“What if I’m too intimidating?”
You’re not intimidating. You’re just used to overfunctioning to fill the silence. Try leaning back and letting things unfold.
“But isn’t this manipulative?”
Not at all. This isn’t about withholding—it’s about creating space for him to lead.
So be honest… are you READY?
Whether you’re single and looking to attract the right man or partnered and ready to deepen the connection with your current partner, this workshop is here to help you learn:
How to inspire his masculine energy and leadership so he naturally steps up whether youre dating or in a relationship.
How to communicate your needs with a feminine approach—not by pushing, doing the work for him or demanding, but by drawing him closer.
How to break free from the "overfunctioning armored woman" trap so you can stop mothering the prince in him when what you really want is to nurture the king.
How to know if he sees a future with you early on, so you don’t waste your time.
How to screen men effectively—without scaring them off or compromising your standards.
How to let go of control without giving up your power so you can lean back while staying grounded in your worth.
…. and so much more
What Other Women Have Said
“Speaking only from the female experience, working with Jeremie is like a panacea against the many father wounds and other male-inflicted trauma many of us have experienced and internalized without realizing. ”
— Maria Martines, Project Manager
“Jeremie's ability to hold space for my emotions provided a platform for healthy masculinity to emerge and gave me vision and real experience that it was actually a possible reality in relationships. and for a seasoned Counselor - like myself - he mirrored my own knowledge, spirituality, intuition, attachment style and ability to provide a safe place to grow. ”
— Lynton Moore, Counselor
“Jeremie provided an incredibly safe a nurturing space to help me reorient. He not only modeled the purest form of the divine masculine in our interaction, but provided me with tools and education to conceptually understand the archetype as I recalibrated. I am forever grateful for my time with Jeremie.”
— Cara Franson, Artist
“I can only describe the process as coming home to myself, and all I had to do was trust Jeremie. I thought would be about figuring out relationships and gaining the skills to make certain decisions, and while that was certainly an outcome, more importantly I discovered myself, and how to lead relationships from a place of strength, respect, and compassion.”
— Dr. Sophie, Psychotherapist